Sunday, 31 December 2017
2017 Year in Review!
Later tonight I'll be posting some of my New Years resolutions and I talk a little bit about them.
But right now let's look back on 2017 and the year that was.
I'll start with the negative things because I want to end on a positive note. So let's get into it.
I learnt a few lessons this year, both good and bad. Some of them I learnt the hard way.
One of the things I learnt is this: (the negative)
Life is full of ingrates, I deal with people who are completely ungrateful on a daily basis.
You can do so much for people, and go a million miles out of your way for them. You can do everything in you power to be there for them and support them in every way; provide them with wonderful golden opportunities and great experiences but they throw it all away and spit in your face; they kick you to the curb and stomp all over you efforts, and they repay you by using you and stabbing you in the back. They ask you for favours to which you always oblige never ever asking for or expecting anything in return and then they just push you aside when they're done with you and you've served your purpose.
This world is a snake pit, you can't trust anyone but yourself, I learnt that the hard way. No one ever appreciates anything. You think you know people until they take you by surprise (in a bad way) turn their backs on you and betray you in ways you never could have ever imagined or expected them to do. You live breath sacrifice for them and then they show their true colours when their done using you.
In some cases it might be they try and get you fired from your job, or perhaps caused you so much emotional stress that it made you want to quit your job, or perhaps it makes you want to move to a new neighborhood, or change schools, or eat at a different restaurant, or shop in different stores to avoid them. What's most hurtful about it is that you do what you do for them! They're the reason for everything you do and you do it all for them, and the reason you do that job, or go to that place. Whatever the case may be, ingrates are all around us.
All my life I've always let things go, and that's because my mom always taught me against revenge, even though I'd love revenge.
Well starting this year, no more Mr. Nice Guy, if people want to get on my bad side and/or make things personal I WILL strike back and strike back hard when I have to. Actions have consequences.
At least that's what I would say, but stooping and lowering myself to other peoples level would be only too easy. I will continue being the bigger person because that's who I am, and while I am at it, I'll even say a familiar prayer for the haters. "Forgive them Father for they know not what they do."
Leave people like this in the hand of the Almighty, because He is justice and what goes around comes around.
I am disgusted with the amount of unfair hypocrisy and double standards one has to deal with when someone has a personal vendetta and conspiracy against them for seemingly no reason at all.
I don't know why people like to make a big deal over nothing at all. To quote a phrase from Sirius Black in the Harry Potter books, "If you want to know what a man's like, take a good look at how he treats his inferiors, not his equals." I always try my best to be equal and equitable and treat everyone the same while still being true to individuality. But the same cannot be said for everyone else, which is unfortunate.
I just don't understand why people like to unnecessarily create controversy.
I understand better than anyone what I like to be excluded, and getting singled out and picked on. I've dealt with crap like that everyday of my life, even to this day. I know what I feels like when people in the community make it an unhealthy working environment and unhealthy working conditions. Causing emotional distress, and unnecessary frustrations. It would be easy to hold a grudge and have a desire to seek revenge. But as a Christian I always turn the other cheek and let things go. Sometimes it's best to just rise above the hate. As I already alluded to.
The problem with that is when you take that route people seem to continue trying to hurt and take advantage of you, because when you do nothing about it they feel they can continue to keep pushing you because you don't do anything about it.
Well this is a new year and from now on that all stops, because guess what, I'm all out of cheeks to turn. From now on I'm gonna stop being so damn nice! You cross the line with me I will strike back and strike back hard! Sometime I think It's true what they say: "Nice guys finish last."
Now I'm not saying I'm going to stop being nice entirely and start being mean, but I will not allow others to take advantage of me any longer or any further.
Some may wonder why I share personal stories like this. Well not that I have to justify myself to anyone but, I do it to inspire and encourage others and give them hope who deal with the same nonsense I do!
I often wonder why some people hate humanity and the world for seemingly no reason; but I think now I finally understand why. Now I'm not saying I condone or support hate in any way or that it's ok, but I think at last I do understand why some hate mankind. It's because you open your heart to people and then they betray you turn their backs on you and stab you in the back. When their done tugging at your heart strings they stab you in it.
These are some of the things that need to change if we are truly going to have peace in the world.
Now it wasn't all bad. There were also a lot of positive highlights in 2017 too! (the positive)
- I was a recipient of the 2017 TDSB Excellence Award!
Back on Monday May 15th I received this award, which validated everything I've done. I mentioned ingrates, in this case these are some of the rare people who are actually grateful! I was nominated by some wonderful people who I will not mention the names of. I want to thank them for their gratitude, loyalty, appreciation, support, and love for what I do.
- I became a qualified/certified teacher!
This was perhaps my biggest accomplishment this year! Being a Lunchroom Supervisor for going on five years now, it will be nice to work in a classroom setting, and not as a volunteer for once but actually get paid for it!
Published in new books again!
- I got published yet again in three more collections, two poetry, and one short story. I am proud to be featured in these three brand new amazing books full of wonderful fellow-Canadian talent!
Always remember that no matter what anyone may think, tells you, or says to you or about you, that you are worth it; and if coming here is a form of escape for you, if my blog gives you peace and if you find comfort solace and entertainment reading my writing then please visit as often as you'd like that's what this is here for! ☺
But right now let's look back on 2017 and the year that was.
I'll start with the negative things because I want to end on a positive note. So let's get into it.
I learnt a few lessons this year, both good and bad. Some of them I learnt the hard way.
One of the things I learnt is this: (the negative)
Life is full of ingrates, I deal with people who are completely ungrateful on a daily basis.
You can do so much for people, and go a million miles out of your way for them. You can do everything in you power to be there for them and support them in every way; provide them with wonderful golden opportunities and great experiences but they throw it all away and spit in your face; they kick you to the curb and stomp all over you efforts, and they repay you by using you and stabbing you in the back. They ask you for favours to which you always oblige never ever asking for or expecting anything in return and then they just push you aside when they're done with you and you've served your purpose.
This world is a snake pit, you can't trust anyone but yourself, I learnt that the hard way. No one ever appreciates anything. You think you know people until they take you by surprise (in a bad way) turn their backs on you and betray you in ways you never could have ever imagined or expected them to do. You live breath sacrifice for them and then they show their true colours when their done using you.
In some cases it might be they try and get you fired from your job, or perhaps caused you so much emotional stress that it made you want to quit your job, or perhaps it makes you want to move to a new neighborhood, or change schools, or eat at a different restaurant, or shop in different stores to avoid them. What's most hurtful about it is that you do what you do for them! They're the reason for everything you do and you do it all for them, and the reason you do that job, or go to that place. Whatever the case may be, ingrates are all around us.
All my life I've always let things go, and that's because my mom always taught me against revenge, even though I'd love revenge.
Well starting this year, no more Mr. Nice Guy, if people want to get on my bad side and/or make things personal I WILL strike back and strike back hard when I have to. Actions have consequences.
At least that's what I would say, but stooping and lowering myself to other peoples level would be only too easy. I will continue being the bigger person because that's who I am, and while I am at it, I'll even say a familiar prayer for the haters. "Forgive them Father for they know not what they do."
Leave people like this in the hand of the Almighty, because He is justice and what goes around comes around.
I am disgusted with the amount of unfair hypocrisy and double standards one has to deal with when someone has a personal vendetta and conspiracy against them for seemingly no reason at all.
I don't know why people like to make a big deal over nothing at all. To quote a phrase from Sirius Black in the Harry Potter books, "If you want to know what a man's like, take a good look at how he treats his inferiors, not his equals." I always try my best to be equal and equitable and treat everyone the same while still being true to individuality. But the same cannot be said for everyone else, which is unfortunate.
I just don't understand why people like to unnecessarily create controversy.
I understand better than anyone what I like to be excluded, and getting singled out and picked on. I've dealt with crap like that everyday of my life, even to this day. I know what I feels like when people in the community make it an unhealthy working environment and unhealthy working conditions. Causing emotional distress, and unnecessary frustrations. It would be easy to hold a grudge and have a desire to seek revenge. But as a Christian I always turn the other cheek and let things go. Sometimes it's best to just rise above the hate. As I already alluded to.
The problem with that is when you take that route people seem to continue trying to hurt and take advantage of you, because when you do nothing about it they feel they can continue to keep pushing you because you don't do anything about it.
Well this is a new year and from now on that all stops, because guess what, I'm all out of cheeks to turn. From now on I'm gonna stop being so damn nice! You cross the line with me I will strike back and strike back hard! Sometime I think It's true what they say: "Nice guys finish last."
Now I'm not saying I'm going to stop being nice entirely and start being mean, but I will not allow others to take advantage of me any longer or any further.
Some may wonder why I share personal stories like this. Well not that I have to justify myself to anyone but, I do it to inspire and encourage others and give them hope who deal with the same nonsense I do!
I often wonder why some people hate humanity and the world for seemingly no reason; but I think now I finally understand why. Now I'm not saying I condone or support hate in any way or that it's ok, but I think at last I do understand why some hate mankind. It's because you open your heart to people and then they betray you turn their backs on you and stab you in the back. When their done tugging at your heart strings they stab you in it.
These are some of the things that need to change if we are truly going to have peace in the world.
Now it wasn't all bad. There were also a lot of positive highlights in 2017 too! (the positive)
- I was a recipient of the 2017 TDSB Excellence Award!
Back on Monday May 15th I received this award, which validated everything I've done. I mentioned ingrates, in this case these are some of the rare people who are actually grateful! I was nominated by some wonderful people who I will not mention the names of. I want to thank them for their gratitude, loyalty, appreciation, support, and love for what I do.
- I became a qualified/certified teacher!
This was perhaps my biggest accomplishment this year! Being a Lunchroom Supervisor for going on five years now, it will be nice to work in a classroom setting, and not as a volunteer for once but actually get paid for it!
Published in new books again!
- I got published yet again in three more collections, two poetry, and one short story. I am proud to be featured in these three brand new amazing books full of wonderful fellow-Canadian talent!
Always remember that no matter what anyone may think, tells you, or says to you or about you, that you are worth it; and if coming here is a form of escape for you, if my blog gives you peace and if you find comfort solace and entertainment reading my writing then please visit as often as you'd like that's what this is here for! ☺
Saturday, 30 December 2017
Still time to pre-order "Passages of the Heart"
There is still time to pre-order the brand new collection of poetry "Passages of the Heart" which will my feature my poem, "Unity" and is set to be released in just two months!
I can't wait till this brand new book is published. The book will be released February 2018 and will be a limited edition hardcover book available exclusively from The Poetry Institute of Canada!
"Passages of the Heart will be a fine quality, hardbound deluxe volume of the best of today's poetry. It is scheduled to be published late February 2018. The anthology will be a classic book designed to last a lifetime. It will make a beautifully distinct gift, a highly valued keepsake or a notable addition to any library."
I am so pleased and honoured to be considered one of the best poets today and I am extremely excited for the release of this new book in February 2018!
Passages of the Heart is now available for pre-order, exclusively form Poetry Institute of Canada!
Reserve your copy now! Click Here: www.poetryinstituteofcanada.ca/currentonlineorders.
I can't wait till this brand new book is published. The book will be released February 2018 and will be a limited edition hardcover book available exclusively from The Poetry Institute of Canada!
"Passages of the Heart will be a fine quality, hardbound deluxe volume of the best of today's poetry. It is scheduled to be published late February 2018. The anthology will be a classic book designed to last a lifetime. It will make a beautifully distinct gift, a highly valued keepsake or a notable addition to any library."
I am so pleased and honoured to be considered one of the best poets today and I am extremely excited for the release of this new book in February 2018!
Passages of the Heart is now available for pre-order, exclusively form Poetry Institute of Canada!
Reserve your copy now! Click Here: www.poetryinstituteofcanada.ca/currentonlineorders.
Thursday, 28 December 2017
2017 Year in Review - coming soon!
Hope everyone had a very Merry Christmas and a wonderful Holiday season! The year is winding down as 2017 comes to an end. We are just three days away from 2018 and the New Year!
I must say I am looking forward to it. The last bit of 2017 was rough for me and I had to deal with a lot of nonsense the last couple of months, and at times all year. Just dealing with difficult people putting obstacles in my way, as most of you can relate to I'm sure. Life often throws unexpected things in your way and you have to deal with all sorts of people things and situations that you never expected or saw coming.
I hope the new year will be of new beginnings and changes for the better for everyone! The world needs it!
This year I am starting something new. On New Years Eve, I will be posting a year in review and all that happened in 2017; reflecting on all that happened with me, my accomplishments, my challenges, my triumphs, my gains, my loses, and so on. Be sure to check back and check that out on Sunday December 31, 2017 for a full look back at the year that was.
Thank you for always visiting this site! I appreciate all my fans and I thank you for loving and enjoying my writing as much as I do working on it! I can't wait to continue sharing more with you all next year! You have some very exciting stuff to look forward to in 2018, so keep it locked! 😉
Remember to hit that 'Follow' button and follow me on twitter and instagram @VickramBachan
I must say I am looking forward to it. The last bit of 2017 was rough for me and I had to deal with a lot of nonsense the last couple of months, and at times all year. Just dealing with difficult people putting obstacles in my way, as most of you can relate to I'm sure. Life often throws unexpected things in your way and you have to deal with all sorts of people things and situations that you never expected or saw coming.
I hope the new year will be of new beginnings and changes for the better for everyone! The world needs it!
This year I am starting something new. On New Years Eve, I will be posting a year in review and all that happened in 2017; reflecting on all that happened with me, my accomplishments, my challenges, my triumphs, my gains, my loses, and so on. Be sure to check back and check that out on Sunday December 31, 2017 for a full look back at the year that was.
Thank you for always visiting this site! I appreciate all my fans and I thank you for loving and enjoying my writing as much as I do working on it! I can't wait to continue sharing more with you all next year! You have some very exciting stuff to look forward to in 2018, so keep it locked! 😉
Remember to hit that 'Follow' button and follow me on twitter and instagram @VickramBachan
Friday, 8 December 2017
New story published in "The Stand" - New book AVAILABLE NOW!!!
NOW AVAILABLE!!!! Just released, in time for the Christmas! Spend your Holiday season reading up on these amazing and newly released stories! This new collection of short stories "The Stand" features my brand new story, "The Will that Saved a Lost Soul" which I wrote earlier this year!
The Will that Saved a Lost Soul is a fictional story of a Canadian man named Cornelius returning home from war to nothing and with nothing but a lifelong childhood dream. It's not easy picking up from where he last left off, especially after everything he endured from the war. When all seems lost and he struggles to go back to a normal everyday life, help comes from the most unexpected of places in the most unexpected way that he never could have imagined.
Order your copy of this amazing book to read my story, as well as other great short stories, and find out what happens with Cornelius!
I recently received my copies two days ago, and I can't put this book down! Some absolutely incredible talent from great Canadian minds and imaginations in this book!
If you pre-ordered a copy you should be receiving it right around now. If you haven't ordered a copy yet, it's not too late. You can still get your very own copy of "The Stand" exclusively from
The Polar Expressions Publishing shop:
Click Here: www.polarexpressions.ca/Shop. and order yours today! 😊
Hope you enjoy that story!
Don't forget to follow me on twitter and instagram @VickramBachan
and follow Polar Expressions @PolarExpressions
The Will that Saved a Lost Soul is a fictional story of a Canadian man named Cornelius returning home from war to nothing and with nothing but a lifelong childhood dream. It's not easy picking up from where he last left off, especially after everything he endured from the war. When all seems lost and he struggles to go back to a normal everyday life, help comes from the most unexpected of places in the most unexpected way that he never could have imagined.
Order your copy of this amazing book to read my story, as well as other great short stories, and find out what happens with Cornelius!
I recently received my copies two days ago, and I can't put this book down! Some absolutely incredible talent from great Canadian minds and imaginations in this book!
If you pre-ordered a copy you should be receiving it right around now. If you haven't ordered a copy yet, it's not too late. You can still get your very own copy of "The Stand" exclusively from
The Polar Expressions Publishing shop:
Click Here: www.polarexpressions.ca/Shop. and order yours today! 😊
Hope you enjoy that story!
Don't forget to follow me on twitter and instagram @VickramBachan
and follow Polar Expressions @PolarExpressions
New poem published in "Let's Fly Away" - New book NOW AVAILABLE!!!
NOW AVAILABLE!!!! Just released, just in time for the holidays! Spend your Christmas season reading these amazing newly released poems! This new collection of poetry "Let's Fly Away" features my brand new poem, "Unnecessary Adversity" which I wrote earlier this year!
Unnecessary Adversity is a poem I think just about everyone can relate to. Like the title, it's about how people cause Unnecessary Adversity for others, constantly giving them a hard time, picking on them, bullying them, being in their way, and just being difficult to them and making life difficult for them.
I often hear people say "Life isn't fair" but that's not entirely accurate, it's often the people in life that make it unfair.
I hope everyone who reads this poem can find some comfort and peace, and if they take something away from it, let it be that they know they are not alone with this problem.
Order your copy of this amazing book to read my poem, as well as other great poems!
I recently received my copies two days ago, and I can't put it down. Some absolutely incredible talent from great Canadian minds and imaginations in this book!
If you pre-ordered a copy you should be receiving it very soon. If you haven't ordered a copy yet, it's not too late. You can still get your very own copy of "Let's Fly Away" exclusively from
The Polar Expressions Publishing shop:
Click Here: www.polarexpressions.ca/Shop. and order your now! 😊
Hope you enjoy that poem!
Don't forget to follow me on twitter and instagram @VickramBachan
and follow Polar Expressions @PolarExpressions
Unnecessary Adversity is a poem I think just about everyone can relate to. Like the title, it's about how people cause Unnecessary Adversity for others, constantly giving them a hard time, picking on them, bullying them, being in their way, and just being difficult to them and making life difficult for them.I often hear people say "Life isn't fair" but that's not entirely accurate, it's often the people in life that make it unfair.
I hope everyone who reads this poem can find some comfort and peace, and if they take something away from it, let it be that they know they are not alone with this problem.
Order your copy of this amazing book to read my poem, as well as other great poems!
I recently received my copies two days ago, and I can't put it down. Some absolutely incredible talent from great Canadian minds and imaginations in this book!
If you pre-ordered a copy you should be receiving it very soon. If you haven't ordered a copy yet, it's not too late. You can still get your very own copy of "Let's Fly Away" exclusively from
The Polar Expressions Publishing shop:
Click Here: www.polarexpressions.ca/Shop. and order your now! 😊
Hope you enjoy that poem!
Don't forget to follow me on twitter and instagram @VickramBachan
and follow Polar Expressions @PolarExpressions
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